Because I Said So!
Oh my word -- did I just say that?
I'm wondering at what point I turned into my mother? Did it happen all at once or was it a slow and gradual process? Did the transformation happen the moment my first child was born or have I been slowly evolving?
Don't get me wrong -- my mother is great, I love my mom. I just didn't expect to become her so quickly.
After being asked "Why?" for the zillionth time --
Why can't we get/have/go [insert child's most dearest desire here]?
And answering because [valid reasons].
(Because... it's too expensive)
(Because... it's cold outside)
(Because... you have to go to school)
I'm wondering at what point I turned into my mother? Did it happen all at once or was it a slow and gradual process? Did the transformation happen the moment my first child was born or have I been slowly evolving?
Don't get me wrong -- my mother is great, I love my mom. I just didn't expect to become her so quickly.
After being asked "Why?" for the zillionth time --
Why can't we get/have/go [insert child's most dearest desire here]?
And answering because [valid reasons].
(Because... it's too expensive)
(Because... it's cold outside)
(Because... you have to go to school)
So on and so forth, ad nauseam. I finally snapped. No more reasons why, just ...
Because I said so!
That's it. That's all. End of discussion.
And that was the exact moment I became my mother. The transformation was complete.
Now I find her words coming out of my mouth all the time. And I swear I can hear her laughing.
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I think the first phrase that came out of my mouth that sounded like a carbon copy of my mom's had to do with orders to put on a sweater.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing how quickly their words become our own!
DeleteI'm pretty sure I just heard her laughter, too. Bwahahaha!
ReplyDeleteIt is contagious! Lol!
DeleteShe is ... I can promise you. Cheers!
ReplyDeleteI know it! Cheers! :)
DeleteOh yes, quite a disconcerting moment when one first hears her words come out of one's own mouth! Engagingly told, Lori.
ReplyDeleteIt happens more and more! Thank you.
DeleteHa...old school parenting is easier than long explanations...enjoyed this !
ReplyDeleteSo much easier! Lol.
DeleteSo familiar!
ReplyDeleteSome classics never go out of style.
DeleteSuch a precise moment...and very authentic!
ReplyDeleteIt was. Thank you.
DeleteI'm sure she's laughing. The older my daughter grows, the more I see myself in her and I find it amusing. It's got to be the Lord's way of keeping us humble. which happens, no doubt, when we eat a lot of humble pie!
ReplyDeleteLol. I love seeing myself in my little girl too. :)
DeleteI think it has a lot to do with having children. My sister started sounding
ReplyDeletelike my mother early on.
It really does.
DeleteI resemble this poem... :P)
ReplyDeleteLol. Right! :)
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